For the wife, AWD, stock. Women really do seem like to like these TBSS's though. My Mom got one as well as another friends Wife. Who knows?
But AWD is obviously safer. And the brakes work pretty darn well. I'd get rid of those crappy goodyears WAY before I replaced the brakes. Especially if you went with RWD. Even though Traction and Stability control help a whole lot, those tires get way too loose in the rain.
And that price crazy. Talk 'em down... a lot. Or find another one.