Sorry to hear about it all man. Just be positive and power through it. everything happens for a reason even if you don't want it to. Be glad she isn't taking everything that means anything to you. That happens all the time from what I hear. I know many divorcees and they all say the same thing: "She may not want to take you to the cleaners, but her lawyer and friends will influence her to." I am about to get married to the love of my life and this is the kind of things my friends from work and elsewhere tell me. I hope you stay positive through this and come out on top. Best wishes to you.