you needs a torque wrench!!!! might as well get one now.. imho, tighten the header bolts in a pattern...insides to outsides.. couple of passes. i didnt use a torque wrench, i also used stock aluminum 3 layer gaskets... tightened every 75 miles for 225 miles. no leakers.
02 Sierra... motorless for now.
02 SS.. stock bottom 4.8, 241's, 224-220/116+4, 918's and pushrods, front mount turbonetics 78mm, HKS GTII, TiAL, eBoost2, Yank PT3600, Performabuilt 60e, solid motor mounts. Tuned by me with HP Pro and LM2/AFX