beleive me its no better knowing the person is gonna go soon or is a sudden death....we all hate it when we loose a loved one....i didnt share this but i lost my older brother to congestive heart failure on friday 8/12 ...he was only 56 years old and was under dr's care for a infection in his leg...what a shocker!!!
the best thing you can do is be strong for one another when that dreaded day comes....it will pass and only good memories will be left behind....