I edited your post since it essentially advertised that you were wanting to sell something. A rule is a rule. There are reasons for the rules. An unfortunate situation doesn't come close to justify bending the rules. Every forum has a similar rule because it helps weed out scammers and cheats. It doesn't get them all, but it definitely helps.

In fact, one could argue that a new member that 1.) no one knows and 2.) is in a difficult situation and in need of funds, is likely is a bigger threat than a member that is not in a difficult situation.

Sorry for your situation...hopefully it improves.