Update on this, seems the 2 kids living there were her children and not her grandchildren as she claimed.
someone called DSS on her and when they came the 2 kids were home alone. they finally found her at the casino. they took the kids away and put them into foster care, i guess this wasn't the first offense she had.
she hasn't bothered me since Ive called the cops on her, i found this out from the one girl who is the poorest girl in OK. i guess they all know each other from the welfare office or something.