O.k.
Here is my list and my truck is black!
1. Was with Meg gold class soap.
2. Clay bar
3. I do the three step Mothers system, or meguires. I like mothers better.
4. When I wash my truck, I use wax as you dry wax and your original wax job will last all year.
Oh yea only microfiber cloth on paint only.
PIC:
http://i159.photobucket.com/albums/t.../BigNasty6.jpg

Good Luck,