99red sent this over to me, i thought it was just what kids need.

"Dear Abby,

I recently read your column advising grandparents on "tough love" for
grandparents to give misbehaving grandchildren, whose own parents let
them run wild. I have followed your advice, and enclose a picture
demonstrating my technique when my grandson just won't behave while I'm
babysitting for his parents. They have told me not to spank him, so I
just take him for a ride, and he usually clams down afterward.

Sign me,

Tough Love Grandma"