well since no one really knew how to help, i guess im the first with this problem and i dont have time to sit in the parking lot and change fittings all day and such, i went to menards and got this nice brass valve for 6.99 and two hose clamps for 2.59 and went to work for a total of about 2 minutes and put this inline on the intake hose for the heater core to stop the flow, so my noise would go away. Sure enough finally worked, no heat, but its summer ill fix it in fall when i have more time to work on it.