RIP Budhayes3

Just want to spread the word to fellow truck enthusiasts.. hopefully this isn't a repost.

I know Billy didn't frequent this site but I am sure that if any of you guys were over on Performance Trucks at all you are familiar with him.

Posted from Billy's father over on PT

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Originally Posted by budhayes3 pop

I am puting this in the engine section because thats where Billy posted most.My name is Bill Ceralli Sr.On Monday Dec 12 My son Billy aka budhayes3 took his own life.I know Billy had developed many friends here at Performance Trucks.Billy will be at Festas Memorial Funeral Home ,Totowa N.J. Fri Dec16, 7pm to 9pm viewing.I loved my son dearly and will miss him for the rest of my life.Bill Ceralli Sr

Funeral Arrangements
If you would be so kind as to post his funeral arrangements we would appreciate it.

www.festamemorial.com

The funeral home is located in Totawa N.J. on 111 Union Blvd. viewing times are Friday the 15th from 7:00-9:00

phone # 973) 790-8686

I hope i am writing this to the right person.

Best regards,

Frank

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They started a donation over on PT for Billy's little girl.

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Originally Posted by dewmanshu

Here is the donation link budhayes3 Donation for Rosie his daughter
This is set up by me. I created an ING DIRECT and paypal account. I will post up statements to show how much has been donated.

Here is the link to the thread Billy's dad started.
http://www.performancetrucks.net/for...hayes3-493623/

This thread is not for discussion of debate. You want to donate, donate. You don't want to donate, stay out of thread unless you have nothing but nice things to say. I personally can't stand suicide, it has placed a very deep wound in me years ago. I understand any harsh feelings toward it and respect that position. But I beg of you, keep it to yourself unless you want to discuss it with me in a PM. I'd be happy to talk about it.

Thanks in advance to those that donate. It's not a necessity, just a gesture.

Billy's dad, I can't shed enough tears to express my sorrow for your loss. Please, please ask us if you need anything. I wish I could make it to the funeral to pay my respects to the family in person.

http://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j1...rosierace3.jpg

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Sad deal, donated this morning.

Very sad

Yes really sad,donated as well

yes very sad, seen it over on PT, you never why he did it, and the holidays have the highest % of suicides than any other time of the year, very stressful time of year for some.

I saw the username in a signature last night. I did not recognize it so I googled it knowing there was something dark waiting at the end of my search. I did not realize it went like it did but that doesn't change much in my mind.....as I knew he had passed for whatever reason and hoped he found a better place no matter the circumstance. Bless those left behind. They need the most now.

He was a helpful member over on PT. Hopefully he has found some peace for himself. My condolences to his family

Very sad to see!

The holidays are tough like what was said...Its sad to see anyone go like that..thoughts go out to family and friends

Saw this on pt. So sad to see this happen. RIP

Man this must have been one hell of a guy. EVERYONE on PT has had nice things to say about him. There's 18 pages already on the thread and 2400 dollars donated! I did not know him at all. I might have read a few of his posts as he had a ton on PT but I mostly stay on here. It is a shame this happened and he did not think more about the daughter or other ones that loved him that he left behind because I am sure she is going to go through hell without her dad as well as the others. I hate seeing news like this. With how everyone on PT talks about him, he was one hell of a guy and it really sucks for everyone he is gone. RIP man and may GOD forgive you. My condolences to his daughter and his loved ones.

Everyone if you ever get down think things through. Dont let it come to this. I dont care who you are or the problems you have. Suicide is a permanent fix to a temporary solution. Things always get better and there is ALWAYS someone there that loves you or that you can talk to.

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Originally Posted by NoTaTurBo

Man this must have been one hell of a guy. EVERYONE on PT has had nice things to say about him. There's 18 pages already on the thread and 2400 dollars donated! I did not know him at all. I might have read a few of his posts as he had a ton on PT but I mostly stay on here. It is a shame this happened and he did not think more about the daughter or other ones that loved him that he left behind because I am sure she is going to go through hell without her dad as well as the others. I hate seeing news like this. With how everyone on PT talks about him, he was one hell of a guy and it really sucks for everyone he is gone. RIP man and may GOD forgive you. My condolences to his daughter and his loved ones.

Everyone if you ever get down think things through. Dont let it come to this. I dont care who you are or the problems you have. Suicide is a permanent fix to a temporary solution. Things always get better and there is ALWAYS someone there that loves you or that you can talk to.

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Amen to that. Very sad situation. Just talk to a loved one or at least somebody. They'll listen and help you get the help you need.

So sad and such a waste.

It's absolutely terrible. I feel so bad for his daughter, every Christmas she's going to be reminded of this. I'm also amazed at how everyone on pt.net came together to help the kid out. Thousands of dollars in a couple days, this time of the year. That's just, wow.

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Originally Posted by Frenchy

It's absolutely terrible. I feel so bad for his daughter, every Christmas she's going to be reminded of this. I'm also amazed at how everyone on pt.net came together to help the kid out. Thousands of dollars in a couple days, this time of the year. That's just, wow.

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+1

I donated this morning. Sad deal for sure