Big UPDATE

Sup fellas... Many have been asking where i have been and hows the truck coming? so here is a update.

Just to be brief and to the point cause i dont want to discuss it really is that my wife told me shes done with me and doesnt want to work things out. im getting a divorce and it will be final in about 2 weeks. We are doing it uncontested and we are both being civil. Honestly i have never hurt like this in my life and things ive had to deal with in this havent been easy to swallow. Im fortunate that i have GOOD friends like danny who has put me up in his house. Im planning on moving in with tyler and becoming a Texas resident. I love my wife and have nothing negative to say even though she has hurt me very bad. Life has its lessons and im one of those people who will find the positive in the whole situation. Jordin made me a better man and made me want to be where i am today. I thank her for that. Losing her was never in my plan and its killing me thinking i failed her. honestly it is what it is and ill make it. Thanks for all the kind words some have already expressed.

Please refrain from the rude remarks and things like "hell ya time to be single and mingle" bull shit cause i would give anything if she still loved me.
thanks guys you will be seeing progress soon.

I hope it all works out for the best in the end for you. Sorry you're having to go through that kind of stuff. Only thing I guess you can be glad about is it isnt a messy divorce where the lady tries to take everything from you. Ive seen that played out too many times. Dont let it get you down though. Keep pushing forward and one day everything will be alright.

thats terrible bud, it may not seem like it now but EVERYTHING happens for a reason. hope it all works out for you, at least you got a good set of friends to fall back on.

You've got a whole bunch of guys that have got your back on all these various truck sites... sorry life is down on ya right now, but I'm sure there's light at the end of the tunnel. You seem like you have a good attitude about it all though which is a good thing. Stay tough man.

this too shall pass

I had the same thing happen to me man... REALLY tough... and there is no awnser.. I took alot of blame because i felt like i didnt hold up to my part of making her happy. I had 10 years and MANY of them 2000 miles apart.. Lots of Plane tickets and many nights apart she moved back to texas.. Thats a tough feeling think of that you a failed... BUT that isnt the case .. being happy is a feeling.. You cannot take all the pressure of someone else being un happy all because of you.. There are to many hours in a Day and alot of varibles that we cannot control...Sometimes people feel the only way things will be different is if they Change. I am sorry my friend to hear about this and it takes time to recover.. I wish bolth of you the best and maybe the dust can settle and get control of all your feelings and find stable ground again

Sorry to here man. I am sure it will work out for the best. My wife threatens to divorce me over my truck every once in a while. I would light my truck on fire before loosing her.

Im sorry to hear bout your divorce. Dont feel responsible for it, sometimes people just grow apart and wanna go in different ways. Im sure your a good guy. But cheer up and like the other guys said you've got alot of friends to help you get through it. Stay strong:)

Been there and done that, time will heal all wounds! good luck bro :melissa:

Sorry to hear about it all man. Just be positive and power through it. everything happens for a reason even if you don't want it to. Be glad she isn't taking everything that means anything to you. That happens all the time from what I hear. I know many divorcees and they all say the same thing: "She may not want to take you to the cleaners, but her lawyer and friends will influence her to." I am about to get married to the love of my life and this is the kind of things my friends from work and elsewhere tell me. I hope you stay positive through this and come out on top. Best wishes to you.

^^^ this is true. i had to watch my parents go through a nasty divorce where my mom tried to take everything from my dad. i am sorry to hear this bad news is happening to you. hope you feel better man.

Just be happy theres no kids involved, That would make it 10 times harder.


Goodluck bro, and wrenchin on the trucks always takes your mind off things even if its just for a little while.

Chick or truck... you can't have both lol. Good Luck!

Hang in there buddy! Tyler will keep you busy cleanin house an doin dishes.At least you didnt shoot her like i did mine!

Yeah its hard living the oil field life. It takes a toll on all relationships. Sorry to hear about how yours ended up. I am sure you will land on your feet. Good luck man.

That sucks but be glad you are able to work things out without it being a constant fight.

Both of you seem to be handling it maturely and that says alot about both of you...I'm here if you need me.

that sux...but you are going to have to move on and get a new chick to get over it.good luck to u

You dont need another female to fill a gap... just wait it out and let yourself "breathe" for awhile, time really does mend the heart it just takes f'in time. I really do feel you on this cause its not great being left by someone who meant so much to you. Keep it 100 man and dont look back now! :thumb:

looks like you are already on the path to recovery...just keep focus jason...specially at work when you have alot of time to think about stuff...just stay focused. holler if i can help.

sorry man, i dont know you or her, but by just reading the post it sounds like she's the one that failed. wrenching is great therapy for me. sounds like you have great friends.

Sorry to hear Jason...hope everything works out well for you.

sorry to hear this man i dont understand whats going on right know i have three buddys getting a divorce and it the girls that want them all three guys want to work it out but they said no , i hope everything works out for u man

Sorry to hear about that man, hope everything gets worked out and is back to normal soon.

Sorry about the bad news. hang in there it will get better it just takes some time. You have alot of friends that care.

Jason, I'm sorry to hear you guys couldn't work things out. I know how I'd feel if mine up and decided she wasn't happy with me anymore. Anything I can do, let me know.

I kinda know how ya feel (OP), I just went through a nasty break up too. Thankfully we weren't married, but it still hurts. Especially when you consider, I waited 3 years to be with this lying cheating skank, only to find out I was only her flavor of the month so to speak.