Big UPDATE

Sup fellas... Many have been asking where i have been and hows the truck coming? so here is a update.

Just to be brief and to the point cause i dont want to discuss it really is that my wife told me shes done with me and doesnt want to work things out. im getting a divorce and it will be final in about 2 weeks. We are doing it uncontested and we are both being civil. Honestly i have never hurt like this in my life and things ive had to deal with in this havent been easy to swallow. Im fortunate that i have GOOD friends like danny who has put me up in his house. Im planning on moving in with tyler and becoming a Texas resident. I love my wife and have nothing negative to say even though she has hurt me very bad. Life has its lessons and im one of those people who will find the positive in the whole situation. Jordin made me a better man and made me want to be where i am today. I thank her for that. Losing her was never in my plan and its killing me thinking i failed her. honestly it is what it is and ill make it. Thanks for all the kind words some have already expressed.

Please refrain from the rude remarks and things like "hell ya time to be single and mingle" bull shit cause i would give anything if she still loved me.
thanks guys you will be seeing progress soon.

I hope it all works out for the best in the end for you. Sorry you're having to go through that kind of stuff. Only thing I guess you can be glad about is it isnt a messy divorce where the lady tries to take everything from you. Ive seen that played out too many times. Dont let it get you down though. Keep pushing forward and one day everything will be alright.

thats terrible bud, it may not seem like it now but EVERYTHING happens for a reason. hope it all works out for you, at least you got a good set of friends to fall back on.

You've got a whole bunch of guys that have got your back on all these various truck sites... sorry life is down on ya right now, but I'm sure there's light at the end of the tunnel. You seem like you have a good attitude about it all though which is a good thing. Stay tough man.

this too shall pass

I had the same thing happen to me man... REALLY tough... and there is no awnser.. I took alot of blame because i felt like i didnt hold up to my part of making her happy. I had 10 years and MANY of them 2000 miles apart.. Lots of Plane tickets and many nights apart she moved back to texas.. Thats a tough feeling think of that you a failed... BUT that isnt the case .. being happy is a feeling.. You cannot take all the pressure of someone else being un happy all because of you.. There are to many hours in a Day and alot of varibles that we cannot control...Sometimes people feel the only way things will be different is if they Change. I am sorry my friend to hear about this and it takes time to recover.. I wish bolth of you the best and maybe the dust can settle and get control of all your feelings and find stable ground again

Sorry to here man. I am sure it will work out for the best. My wife threatens to divorce me over my truck every once in a while. I would light my truck on fire before loosing her.

Im sorry to hear bout your divorce. Dont feel responsible for it, sometimes people just grow apart and wanna go in different ways. Im sure your a good guy. But cheer up and like the other guys said you've got alot of friends to help you get through it. Stay strong:)

Been there and done that, time will heal all wounds! good luck bro :melissa:

Sorry to hear about it all man. Just be positive and power through it. everything happens for a reason even if you don't want it to. Be glad she isn't taking everything that means anything to you. That happens all the time from what I hear. I know many divorcees and they all say the same thing: "She may not want to take you to the cleaners, but her lawyer and friends will influence her to." I am about to get married to the love of my life and this is the kind of things my friends from work and elsewhere tell me. I hope you stay positive through this and come out on top. Best wishes to you.